Assalamualaikum..........
Another issue that i would like to discuss is having serious relationship effect student performance in their study. Here, I am not saying it effect in a negative aspect or positive given that it effect in both way. It is ourselves that will determine how it will shape our life. It is not denying that most student nowdays have a serious relationship with their couple and some of them get engaged. In our culture, it is a positive image when they get engaged given that it shows they are serious and parents expect that they will never do something wrong. However, what about their study? can they focus in their study and perform well? The answer is it depends on our selves. I have a friend that get engaged will study. I can see that she's happy with her choice. For her, couple or get engaged does not disrupt her study given that she know on how to manage her time. instead, her fiancee always support her to perform well in her study. Although she's almost give up because of health problem, her fiance advice her to still finishing her study and because of her family and fiance hope, she still continue her study. Here we can see that it give positive effect. But don't forgot, some teenager run away from college just because of obsesses with their couple. Feel free to leave your comment.
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Hye...Assalamualaikum..
ReplyDeleteFirst of all, i like your issue although i'm not involved in that kind of situation, i know this thing happen to most of the teenagers nowadays. Having a relationship can distract study, is it? Yes, for me, it do distract our study. if you are a person who cannot manage your emotion, you are easily get stress just by having a little quarrel with your partner. trust me or not, at that time, your mind isn't in your classroom anymore.. Get engaged doesn't mean you can fly out your mind to your fiance all the time. Just don't get obsessed to your couple. if you destroyed in the middle of your way to achieve success, you are more worst than people who struggle to the mountain but fall then. for my last word, grab opportunity althogh you perform slowly. think of it..